Post Summary:
Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to constantly show up, post, and promote yourself online? You’re not alone. This blog post dives into what it’s really like to be an introverted creative trying to succeed in today’s loud, hyper-connected world. From battling the algorithm to embracing your quiet strengths, this is your guide to thriving—without becoming someone you’re not.
Table of Contents:
- Introduction
- What Does It Even Mean to Be an Introvert?
- Why Is Being an Introvert So Hard Today?
- The Creative Pressure of Social Media
- The Pluses (Yes, Their Are Some)
- Connection Beyond the Crowd
- Takeaways
Introduction
Ever been at a family gathering or a crowded event and thought, “Why am I even here?”
You could be at home, deep into your favorite hobby, binge-watching the latest Netflix series, or finally making progress on that creative project you’ve been putting off. But instead, you’re stuck in a room full of people—some familiar, some total strangers—feeling like you belong on another planet.

Starting this blog was a big step outside my comfort zone. I never expected it to be so hard, but weirdly, it’s exactly what I didn’t know I needed.
So, what does being an introvert even mean?
According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, an introvert is “a typically reserved or quiet person who tends to be introspective and enjoys spending time alone.”
I used to identify more as an ambivert—someone with both introverted and extroverted qualities—but lately, I’ve accepted that I lean more toward the introverted side. And that’s okay.
Why Is Being an Introvert So Hard Today?
Let’s be real—our world is built for extroverts.
From classrooms to social media to the workplace, everything revolves around networking, collaboration, and being seen.
As an introvert, constant communication and engagement in group activities can be overwhelming and exhausting.
The Creative Pressure of Social Media
When I’m in new situations, I try to be bubbly and social, but deep down? I’d rather be in the corner, people-watching or reading a good book. Still, as someone interested in the creative industry, I’ve had to face an unavoidable truth:
In today’s digital world, success often depends on visibility.
If you don’t have an Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, website—or some kind of digital footprint—it’s like your work doesn’t even exist. The pressure to constantly share, promote, and perform is tiring when all you want to really do is enjoy the hobby / activities you love in the piece and quiet of your own home.
It feels like we’re all just shouting into a void, begging for attention:
“Look at me! Like, comment, follow! Don’t scroll past!”
And I can’t help but wonder:
Whatever happened to quiet talent being enough?
There was a time when local communities supported small businesses, handmade goods, and artistic expression without requiring a social media following or hashtags like #FollowForFollow. But now?
To survive in a creative field, you have to stand out—and being introverted doesn’t make that easy.
The Pluses (Yes, There Are Some!)
Being an introvert isn’t a flaw—it’s a superpower, especially in creative work.
Introverts are naturally:
- Reflective
- Empathetic
- Detail-oriented
- Deep thinkers
Those traits are perfect for blogging, writing, design, photography, editing, and so many other creative careers.
Connection Beyond the Crowd
Plus, when we do step out of our comfort zones, we often form genuine connections. As awkward as it might feel to network, it’s those one-on-one moments that can lead to:
- Collaborations
- Long-term friendships
- Authentic brand support
Takeaways
Being an introvert in today’s extrovert-driven society is hard—but it’s not impossible.
In fact, many of history’s most influential people were introverts:
- Rosa Parks
- Martin Luther King Jr.
- Abraham Lincoln
- Albert Einstein
They all made powerful contributions without always being the loudest in the room.
So whether you’re a writer, designer, small business owner, or dreamer, know this:
You don’t have to change who you are to succeed—you just have to learn how to work with your strengths.
If you feel at all like this post resinated with you I encourage you to join me on this journey and push yourself just a little more outside your comfort zone each day to allow your ideas, creativity, and passions be seen and heard.
TTYL, my fellow anomalies. Stay Anomalous. Signing off…
Amirah
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